Is there ever a reason to raise your voice? Can you really get closer at the top of your lungs? When red is all you see is resolve soon to follow? Oddly enough the answer to all 3 is a resounding YES! Yet, you have to be with someone where…
Ever since I was young, I wrote….absolutely love it, never much of a reader, in fact, I’ve never understood those who have to read, but, I am sure happy about those who read this blog. When I started countryclaire.com it was for nothing more than to gain experience in website…
It’s no secret when we experience something we want it to last or we want to have it happen all the time; however, even the best meal would become status quo if we ate it all the time. I learned that when I took the meter of bratwurst challenge, I…
Being single is not a curse and in many instances it is quite nice; however, there have been moments in my life where I’ve wanted to take someone by the neck and shake them until their head falls off or everything in their pockets flies out like the innards of…
Fairy Tales are fun to read as a child and hopefully you grow up knowing, they’re entertainment and not architectural plans as to how your life is going to turn out. It is my hope elements of the tale come to you; however, while it may appear attractive to be…
I posted this yesterday on Facebook and received wonderful comments; however, I was open to negative views as well. After all, it’s a free country, still. In any event I wanted to preserve the 17 statements for eternity, so, I’ve moved them here as well. I voted for Trump. I…
I should be strong enough to face you; however, it’s the truth I’m afraid of. I should be secure enough to trust you; however, it’s not my love I doubt. I should be bold enough to ask you; however, why do you insist on holding onto the answers. I should…
I thought I had more time. I referred to next year as if any of us have control. You can have the time of your life or curse that time was cut short. I’ve read countless reminders to value time and tell those you love that you love them, when…
I am in a real pickle. I’m in an awesome relationship; however, he has shaped a completely incorrect view of me. We started out more than grand; however, extenuating circumstances marred that blissful beginning. Where do I go from here? Is it worth setting the record straight OR do I…
Years and years and years ago…. I was dating online, when it was taboo, weird or downright crazy. I was less than savvy; however, I thought it was a super concept and so I thought ‘what the hell’ and signed up. I had perused the profiles of several interesting gents…
It’s no secret that I’m a long-time Country Music fan; however, what you may not know is that Country Music has not just been something for me to listen to… the lyrics in songs have dictated many of my thoughts, perceptions and in truth, feelings. I would be hard-pressed to…
If you’ve ever met me you’ll know that my louder than normal voice and unfiltered comments are just some of the things that I am known for; however, what you may not know is just how small I feel at times. I realize that no other person will ever ‘complete’…
Recently I had placed myself in an awkward position… in an effort to help a family member in need… I offered up my house. I made the offer prior to truly thinking about the logistics, yet, he came to me – homeless. I live in a pretty small house as…
I’ve been online dating for almost 25 years now and Continue Reading
It has been quite some time since an Imaginary Friend was in order; however, I’m to the point where I feel I have one. I can see him, I can hear him and on chance occurrences he’s close enough to touch… but, is he really there? It has been 4 days now…
For any of you that know me, you know that my exterior is tough, yet, my heart and empathy for others runs deeper than those who do not know me would think. I have always rooted for the underdog, defended the weak and am dedicated to righting a wrong. Due…
I’ve always been an optimist and although some may think that I am unaware of the parade of crazies that I’ve allowed through my heart.. I still do believe in happily ever after. I am not thoroughly convinced that I am destined to be single forever, yet, I am less…
Well, it’s no secret that Kenny Rogers’ song Coward of the County will always bring a tear to my eye; however, the title above has little to nothing to do with the Gatlin boys or Becky (listen to the song if you don’t know what I’m talking about). In talking…