Throughout my life, I’ve been able to meet all sorts of people and each meeting good, bad or indifferent is always a learning experience. I tend to be selective with whom I spend actual time and I have no issue dining alone, catching a movie sans company or doing any…
Over the years I’ve used this website to learn how to build a website, yet, the close second would be to have a central place where I could write, express and share. My handwritten journals are still an ongoing habit as certain thoughts, feelings or experiences are not for electronic…
I am unsure what language single men speak these days; however, I was recently mystified once again. A budding friendship had begun and things were light, fun and banter was at an all time high, even the tires had been more than kicked, so things were on an open-minded, even…
Oh this title has been overused; however, as I review tonight’s text discussion I fall back on Hank Voight’s wording from Chicago PD – “How important is it for you to be right?” For me I always need to clarify or should I say claire-i-fy and why is that. In…
I reflect back on these past few weeks with great joy and happiness – all of this time we were in essence living with the same dreams or desires in parallel, yet, never intersecting. We came close though as mutual friends connected us before we even truly knew of it. …
There are people we will spend time with and enjoy that time spent; however, despite all their qualities…. the introduction of family is never considered. Yet, when you are with someone who makes the sun rise and set in your eyes… those special introductions are not only necessary, but, desired….
As I read through the various posts here I realize there were a few of how I had found the love of my life and how things were going to be absolutely wonderful…. now that we’ve come together; however, shortly after any of those posts comes the inevitable reality of…
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Well, I dipped my toe in and to my surprise was greeted with someone who was a true breath of fresh air! Laughing, flirting and an overall good time was had by all. It was a nice way to enter into the dating scene again; however, it’s the aftermath which…
I’ve come to search on you again…. Excited about what’s to come; however, sort of wondering why I return to the same place. Creature of habit I guess and willing to see if new or different results are to come. Different than insanity where I do the same thing expecting…
Recently I was talking with someone about how fucked up females are. I’m sure there are a few men that are just as screwed; however, for the most part – it’s females. We’re pretty much a doomed gender….here’s the reasoning: We accept negative a lot easier than positive. Someone can…
I’ve toiled with writing this; however, this blog is for me, to express myself and to put my little opinion on the map. So here goes.. probably one of the longest posts ever and my ADD definitely shows through…look, there’s a squirrel – hope you can follow my points. I’m…
Some have often wondered if my son is a Marine, yet, those who know the story know it’s much deeper than it seams Was I by chance a widow of one who once wore Blues, did I help him as he polished buttons and spit to shine his shoes OR…
I find myself frustrated that my reactions to you are due to my knowledge of all; however, she strolls through life completely unaware. I could be fun, carefree and pleasant; however, knowing what I know prevents me from ever really letting go. I keep my guard up because expecting loyalty in a situation…
There are many people at the office celebrating new babies and it’s wonderful to see; however, I’m very happy not to be one of them. I have a wonderful son who is now a tax paying, contributing member to society and I could not be more proud of him, yet, I’m…
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A friend of mine posted an image on social media depicting small children riding and/or standing on dogs, with a reference as to how this was not OK. All too often we hear of a dog attacking a child; however, not much time if any is spent on what was…
Oh, it was a festive St. Patrick’s Day in St. Paul, MN – capitol city and my hometown; however, like any other large gathering – there are a few words of advice I’d love to share with you. It’s no secret that many people go in hopes of coming across their…
We’ve all been in a situation where something happened and each person has their own ‘take’. The more it is spoken about and the more who become involved either as witnesses or allies, the actual events become more and more skewed and not even from intent. Continue Reading
Good! If you were someone who took a dog into your home only to have it surprise you with dirty paw-prints or medical bills which you cannot afford OR it simply was TOO much for you to handle.. and now, you’re ready to get rid of the dog…. PLEASE DO;…
Unless you live under a rock, you know why this group exists….. #KoreanLivesMatter is all inclusive, unless you’re an ass, then, you can’t join! No one really cares what your ethnicity is; however, if you do, then we’re probably not the group. There’s nothing wrong with being proud of where…
Never show her how to live without you. Call, even if you do not want to. Tell her how you feel, if she has to rely on what was once said…. she may seek to find someone who will say something now. Believe that she could leave and treat her as…
Is there ever a reason to raise your voice? Can you really get closer at the top of your lungs? When red is all you see is resolve soon to follow? Oddly enough the answer to all 3 is a resounding YES! Yet, you have to be with someone where…
Ever since I was young, I wrote….absolutely love it, never much of a reader, in fact, I’ve never understood those who have to read, but, I am sure happy about those who read this blog. When I started countryclaire.com it was for nothing more than to gain experience in website…
It’s no secret when we experience something we want it to last or we want to have it happen all the time; however, even the best meal would become status quo if we ate it all the time. I learned that when I took the meter of bratwurst challenge, I…
Being single is not a curse and in many instances it is quite nice; however, there have been moments in my life where I’ve wanted to take someone by the neck and shake them until their head falls off or everything in their pockets flies out like the innards of…
Monday was like any other day; however, Monday evening’s event whipped my life and heart up! I meet people all the time, have had a hundred horrible first dates (well, maybe not 100)…. and I am still standing – single! But, there he was in the Automotive Aisle…! I felt…
Fairy Tales are fun to read as a child and hopefully you grow up knowing, they’re entertainment and not architectural plans as to how your life is going to turn out. It is my hope elements of the tale come to you; however, while it may appear attractive to be…
I posted this yesterday on Facebook and received wonderful comments; however, I was open to negative views as well. After all, it’s a free country, still. In any event I wanted to preserve the 17 statements for eternity, so, I’ve moved them here as well. I voted for Trump. I…
I should be strong enough to face you; however, it’s the truth I’m afraid of. I should be secure enough to trust you; however, it’s not my love I doubt. I should be bold enough to ask you; however, why do you insist on holding onto the answers. I should…
I thought I had more time. I referred to next year as if any of us have control. You can have the time of your life or curse that time was cut short. I’ve read countless reminders to value time and tell those you love that you love them, when…
Years and years and years ago…. I was dating online, when it was taboo, weird or downright crazy. I was less than savvy; however, I thought it was a super concept and so I thought ‘what the hell’ and signed up. I had perused the profiles of several interesting gents…
I am in a real pickle. I’m in an awesome relationship; however, he has shaped a completely incorrect view of me. We started out more than grand; however, extenuating circumstances marred that blissful beginning. Where do I go from here? Is it worth setting the record straight OR do I…
My Aunt Jackie had a beautiful service… on the way home I started to think about my own funeral service. What would I want done? Who would handle it? Would I want to be seen or is cremation the answer? In all seriousness, I would want to create the picture…
It is never easy stepping into new water; however, there is definitely something new in the air. I would love to be able to tell you exactly what is going on, yet, I myself do not know either. I am sure that in time it will come to fruition, yet,…
