Well, it’s no secret that Kenny Rogers’ song Coward of the County will always bring a tear to my eye; however, the title above has little to nothing to do with the Gatlin boys or Becky (listen to the song if you don’t know what I’m talking about). In talking…
I’ve always been an optimist and although some may think that I am unaware of the parade of crazies that I’ve allowed through my heart.. I still do believe in happily ever after. I am not thoroughly convinced that I am destined to be single forever, yet, I am less…
For any of you that know me, you know that my exterior is tough, yet, my heart and empathy for others runs deeper than those who do not know me would think. I have always rooted for the underdog, defended the weak and am dedicated to righting a wrong. Due…
It has been quite some time since an Imaginary Friend was in order; however, I’m to the point where I feel I have one. I can see him, I can hear him and on chance occurrences he’s close enough to touch… but, is he really there? It has been 4 days now…
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Recently I had placed myself in an awkward position… in an effort to help a family member in need… I offered up my house. I made the offer prior to truly thinking about the logistics, yet, he came to me – homeless. I live in a pretty small house as…
If you’ve ever met me you’ll know that my louder than normal voice and unfiltered comments are just some of the things that I am known for; however, what you may not know is just how small I feel at times. I realize that no other person will ever ‘complete’…
It’s no secret that I’m a long-time Country Music fan; however, what you may not know is that Country Music has not just been something for me to listen to… the lyrics in songs have dictated many of my thoughts, perceptions and in truth, feelings. I would be hard-pressed to…
When something is going right, time flies; however, when you’re enduring something horrendous that little fast clock changes to something slower than Christmas. Why is that? Simply because we’re not paying attention, as that little clock – never changes it’s pace. I love to say that the timing is right,…
Yours is a tale of rebellion and adventure! Your life has been exciting and fulfilling. While you have experienced some ups and downs, you managed to remain resilient and learned how to smile in the face of fear. “The Diary of a Travelling Renegade” is a legendary account of your…
One of the kindest people I know, will always remain true to himself – in his own way. He will not say something, just, to make YOU feel better; however, he will not make you feel bad on purpose either. He has extreme disdain for those who do not work;…
I’m not sure how often I would send out a newsletter; however, I’m writing this post to promote the option. If I am unclear as to why I have a website, I should be equally confused as to why I would send out a newsletter, yet – here it is….
Even though we’ve been together for over a year and things feel just right, holidays bring a little uneasiness. Am I automatically invited, do I need to extend the proper invitation? Are we comfortable enough with one another that it is just assumed? Well, the answer is still up in…
It has become abundantly apparent that I and my fellow responsible, hard-working friends are about the dumbest people on earth! As I worked tirelessly on trying to find the best of the worst health care options, I realized that irrespective of what plans I decide on offering – the accumulated…
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It has been quite a spell since I’ve posted; however, the interesting, odd and downright unbelievable dating experiences have come to a temporary or permanent halt. I’d love to say that I have found my one and only; however, I am still at the same or similar spot as before…with…
Years and years and years ago…. I was dating online, when it was taboo, weird or downright crazy. I was less than savvy; however, I thought it was a super concept and so I thought ‘what the hell’ and signed up. I had perused the profiles of several interesting gents…
http://quizly.io/quiz/1671/begin/2 These are my results; Realistic. Based on what you saw in these images, you are the realistic type. Some would say you are pessimistic because you can identify the cause of many unpleasant situations, correctly evaluate the current state of events and predict how they would turn out, based…
I wish I could be that person who looks to something new as exciting; however, I tend to always ponder the what ifs, the negatives and/or the perils that I may face. There are many who can hear about something new, different and with wide-eyed enthusiasm go for it without…
I will be the first to admit that I’ve said these words; however, I will also tell you that I hate these two words together. I’m not a fan of ‘It’s all good’ either. In general I find that both of those terms, albeit ‘hip’ are stupid! I believe in…
There are moments in life where you find yourself in a situation where you’re being understanding of someone else’s situation; however, circumstances force you to question if your actions are understood or underestimated. Some will immediately say that if you feel the latter, that person or persons does not view…
Recently there’s been a barrage of bloodshed & death; however, color is only brought up in certain situations. As I write this, I anticipate that it will be immediately bashed, if I’m not on the looting bandwagon…. so, bash away as I see no logical correlation to looting & resurrecting…
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I definitely believe in helping others. I wish that there was more that I could do; however, I do what I can and in some cases I do more than I should. I do not think that I am any better than anyone else and trust me, there are tons…
21 Lost Gentleman Traditions that Still Apply Today OR Do they? In my current and hopefully last relationship, I enjoy 12 of the 21. Sure, it could be a higher number; however, it could be lower too. If I held out for all 21, I’m not sure if it would…
To most a man who has never married is revered as smart, perhaps, even envied; however, a woman who has never married is expected to have something wrong with her. Perhaps she spent time in prison, maybe she has a rare blood disease or her home is filled to the…
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Several hours have passed since I learned that my Father’s heart said – no more. I am unsure if I am in shock or if I am in comfort knowing that he left this earth, his way. Several years back we had another scare; however, his miraculous recovery caused all…
You’ve studied many languages, providing you with plenty of ways to express yourself. You are storyteller and people love to listen to you. Your voice is full of wisdom and your vocabulary is old-fashioned and immaculate. Take The Quiz Yourself Well, I’m nowhere close to 68; however, one cannot take…
Social Media can be a wonderful thing; however, there are certain sites that are geared toward professional means; LinkedIn being one of them. Sure you can reconnect on a personal level; however, confusing Facebook and LinkedIn is a professional no-no. If you have a LinkedIn profile (free) – make sure…
Have you ever wondered what the fuck is wrong with 95% of the people walking on this earth? Typically this question is asked by someone who considers themselves to be far superior; however, quite the contrary, I’m part of the 95% I speak of. I have made so many jacked-up…
It would be the most incredible occurrence in life; however, the timing is completely wrong. How can something so wonderful be considered so very wrong? Well, there are many things in this life that if they would have happened in another time or place – they would be celebrated, announced…
It’s no surprise that relationships of any sort take work; however, when they take effort to accept what you know you deserve more – what, are you really involved in? Are you selling yourself short? Some would immediately say yes, yet, to only make their own sacrificial choices. Remember, cast…
Last night I spent a great deal of time speaking with a very handsome man. I had wondered if he had interest or if he was seeking conversation with someone other than his travel mate. We spoke of past relationships, where we are now, the B-52’s and photography. It was…
2 Different states, 2 potential countries… where will we meet up? Will it be blissful? Will it be what we’ve both tempered to dream of? Questions asked; however, far too early to answer. Is this the beginning of the love story to end all others? Will she see in him,…
It’s very easy to ‘say’ you’re thinking rationally; however, the uncontrollable excitement cannot be easily controlled. We all want to be able to give someone a true chance by not over-thinking too much, dreaming up scenarios and creating a vision of what it all will be like, yet, when you’ve…
It’s much too soon to be using the word ‘our’ with much more meaning than it involving 2 ; however, against better judgment I’m going to begin ‘Our Story’. We have yet to meet in person, yet, through various forms of communication we’ve established a strong baseline. There’s a bit…
Relationships are as unique as the people in them. There are some that make complete sense as to why you’re in them and others that indicate you must have a whole box of screws loose to even remotely have your toe dipped in. Which are the most prevalent? The latter….
I love the word audacity; however, rarely have the chance to use it in general talk. Luckily, I have a situation in which to write about it. “It is the way it is, there’s no changing it.” “This is what you signed up for…” “Make the elephant feel comfortable, clear space and…
Recently someone told me that our relationship was ‘temporary’. I had to do everything I could to remain calm; however, after I had that not always taken ‘time-to-think’…. I realized how true that was. Life has a way of showing us just how ‘expendable’ we are. We all know that…
I’m still furious that the flags were NOT lowered and when I am furious – I write, here’s another CountryClaire original. I did not know these heroes and just recently learned their names For they never sought the glory nor hungered for this fame Each name represents a tragedy that…
Most fairy tales are just that, tales; however, true love does exist, yet, it rarely entails singing birds, dwarfs or potions. It starts when a man and a woman happen upon one another in this populated packed portal. Here’s where our story begins… similar to most love stories, this did not…
You were a queen! Your memories reveal that you were a powerful and enchanting queen in your past life! You were seductive, romantic, strong, determined, and a true lover of the arts. You were admired by your kingdom and relentlessly pursued by the all the men (and even the ladies!)…
With the entire December album of George Winston playing in the background I write this. Thanksgiving being the first song. The holiday itself is about sharing, time with family and taking your stomach to task. As I listen to George display his talent, I wonder about my ‘special purpose’ as…
All too often people write about the misses of life, the opportunities that have passed or how they never opened the door meant for them. Society is more interested in the demise of another versus the stories of triumph, success or reached goals. It’s such a very sad thing that…
Any girl is ‘a girl‘; however, ‘the girl’ is the goal I have. Recently, I said this to someone. Not that I was expecting him to just up and love me; however, the situation caused me to say something. I’ve been a girl in many situations; however, I have yet…
