This category can either be a dating story of mine or a simple comment on dating as a general topic.
I am unsure what language single men speak these days; however, I was recently mystified once again. A budding friendship had begun and things were light, fun and banter was at an all time high, even the tires had been more than kicked, so things were on an open-minded, even…
Well, I dipped my toe in and to my surprise was greeted with someone who was a true breath of fresh air! Laughing, flirting and an overall good time was had by all. It was a nice way to enter into the dating scene again; however, it’s the aftermath which…
I’ve toiled with writing this; however, this blog is for me, to express myself and to put my little opinion on the map. So here goes.. probably one of the longest posts ever and my ADD definitely shows through…look, there’s a squirrel – hope you can follow my points. I’m…
I find myself frustrated that my reactions to you are due to my knowledge of all; however, she strolls through life completely unaware. I could be fun, carefree and pleasant; however, knowing what I know prevents me from ever really letting go. I keep my guard up because expecting loyalty in a situation…
Some have often wondered if my son is a Marine, yet, those who know the story know it’s much deeper than it seams Was I by chance a widow of one who once wore Blues, did I help him as he polished buttons and spit to shine his shoes OR…
There are many people at the office celebrating new babies and it’s wonderful to see; however, I’m very happy not to be one of them. I have a wonderful son who is now a tax paying, contributing member to society and I could not be more proud of him, yet, I’m…
Never show her how to live without you. Call, even if you do not want to. Tell her how you feel, if she has to rely on what was once said…. she may seek to find someone who will say something now. Believe that she could leave and treat her as…
Unless you live under a rock, you know why this group exists….. #KoreanLivesMatter is all inclusive, unless you’re an ass, then, you can’t join! No one really cares what your ethnicity is; however, if you do, then we’re probably not the group. There’s nothing wrong with being proud of where…
Good! If you were someone who took a dog into your home only to have it surprise you with dirty paw-prints or medical bills which you cannot afford OR it simply was TOO much for you to handle.. and now, you’re ready to get rid of the dog…. PLEASE DO;…
We’ve all been in a situation where something happened and each person has their own ‘take’. The more it is spoken about and the more who become involved either as witnesses or allies, the actual events become more and more skewed and not even from intent. Continue Reading
Oh, it was a festive St. Patrick’s Day in St. Paul, MN – capitol city and my hometown; however, like any other large gathering – there are a few words of advice I’d love to share with you. It’s no secret that many people go in hopes of coming across their…
A friend of mine posted an image on social media depicting small children riding and/or standing on dogs, with a reference as to how this was not OK. All too often we hear of a dog attacking a child; however, not much time if any is spent on what was…
It’s no secret that certain women are extremely bright; however, they continue to make stupid choices when it comes to love. Continue Reading
Is there ever a reason to raise your voice? Can you really get closer at the top of your lungs? When red is all you see is resolve soon to follow? Oddly enough the answer to all 3 is a resounding YES! Yet, you have to be with someone where…
Being single is not a curse and in many instances it is quite nice; however, there have been moments in my life where I’ve wanted to take someone by the neck and shake them until their head falls off or everything in their pockets flies out like the innards of…
Fairy Tales are fun to read as a child and hopefully you grow up knowing, they’re entertainment and not architectural plans as to how your life is going to turn out. It is my hope elements of the tale come to you; however, while it may appear attractive to be…
I should be strong enough to face you; however, it’s the truth I’m afraid of. I should be secure enough to trust you; however, it’s not my love I doubt. I should be bold enough to ask you; however, why do you insist on holding onto the answers. I should…
Years and years and years ago…. I was dating online, when it was taboo, weird or downright crazy. I was less than savvy; however, I thought it was a super concept and so I thought ‘what the hell’ and signed up. I had perused the profiles of several interesting gents…
I am in a real pickle. I’m in an awesome relationship; however, he has shaped a completely incorrect view of me. We started out more than grand; however, extenuating circumstances marred that blissful beginning. Where do I go from here? Is it worth setting the record straight OR do I…
I’ve been online dating for almost 25 years now and Continue Reading