By Default or Design… The Beginning Series…

All too often I hear about the tragedies that people feel powerless too; however, I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason.  I will never say that someone contracted Cancer because they deserve it… that is a very typical argument response.  Stating that everything happens for a reason simply means that there is a ‘reason’ for everything.  The ‘reason’ does not always show itself immediately and in some cases, one may never truly know; however, what is the alternative? I have been known to describe the ‘reason’ for my experiences as being ‘by default or design’ – I take