How Do YOU Remember?

When we lose a loved one… where does the pain come from?  Is it from the fact that they will no longer experience this or that OR is it because we will no longer experience time with them?  In most cases I would venture to think it stems from the latter.  When we love… we should be loving with our whole heart, our entire soul and without conditions… in other words it should be unconditional.  When we love with any sort of parameters, we change it from love to something else. Love is probably one of the most complex, yet,